The old
city streets are filled with quaint allies, stone walkways and beautiful
old wooden doors. I have always loved
strolling through these pathways and greeting the people who call them home,
watching the women sit and chat and the children skip and hop down the lanes.
In the name
of progress and advancement this country is busy tearing down over 250 year old
traditional country homes and ‘improving’ the city. This progress means that the streets are now
reduced to piles of rubble and old discarded bricks. This time in between the distruction and
re-building leave this particular town in a rather sorry state.
The group I
travelled with most recently was really struggling with the loss of the history
represented by each pile of stones. They
mourned the ‘impoverished’ people who were having their family homes literally
torn out from under them.
One man
strolled ahead of the group to get a picture and came back visibly shaken, “Karen,
I heard voices back there. I think some
poor family is still being forced to live amidst the rubble”.
I rounded
the corner he pointed at and followed the sound of a child’s chatter. Sure enough a few walls were still standing
and the front door of the house was slightly a jar.
The women
heard us approached and stepped out.
“Happy
Holiday,” I greeted her since the end of Ramadan had just been a few days
before and most families were still in the midst of celebrating.
She invited
us all to come in, and on her third earnest issuing of the invitation I told
the group that we were going in for tea.
My fellow travelers
were awed by the elegance that awaited them.
After passing through the brightly light courtyard we were lead into the
living room. The coffee table, or
dustahan as it is called here, was lavishly spread with bowls of dried fruit and
nuts, candies and cookies. We sat on
plush thick cushions and admired the interact woodwork on the walls that shelved
expensive looking china tea sets.
The group's
ideas of poor and impoverished minority people forced to live in desolated
homes came crashing down. In fact our
hosts seemed to have a better overall attitude towards the change coming to her
city than any of us did. The visit in
her home ended up being a highlight for many on the trip.